How to Raise an Adult

Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success (2015.6)


关于本书 About the book

In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.

Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.

本书金句 Key insights

Children weren’t put on the planet to walk the path that was set for them. They’re all individuals, each with their own passions and aspirations. Our job as parents is to help them find it.